Thanks, SDF. You're right, of course. You know how hard it is to sit still, though.
Some special notes here:
I will never get the proof you had. She's very clever and has been using fake accounts, other names, multiple email, IM and chat platforms. I get antsy just seeing her on the PC or her Smartphone. It drives me nuts!
This is #2! The first was a PA, and we came back strong for 2 years. I did some major 180's, and held onto most of them, esp the ones addressing her most major complaints. Now she's in this EA, and claiming a new set of issues with me. We can come back again, and if we do, I think this one will be for keeps....BUT she'll need to accept some blame this time and do some hard work too.
I think she CAN, but don't know if she WILL. I think she is prone to take the "easy" way out...and I know her feelings are deep for OM right now, or at least she feels they are. She is a very emotional person, and has convinced herself that this is her true love, they are meant for each other, etc.
As far as I know, they've only met in person 3-4 times. The rest has been text/ IM! They have no clue what they are getting themselves into...its so easy to be perfect when you have no responsibilities to each other.
