lostlove - i sure have fun with you ya know? i know you are in pain, and suffering with your sitch, but you really make a person think with your posts and such ...
and is that a good thing or a bad thing?
I understand the power of visualization...it works in either direction...if you imagine yourself to be misserable well then that's pretty much where your going to end up...If you imagine you are beautiful and smart and loveable..woah watch out world!
it's not that I'm a total pesimist and wasn't intending to come off as negative here...I as someone who certainly knows how to imagine in all sorts of directions...was just wondering what other things or tools you would be using...
thus the inquiry...
how will you know if the vision is comming to be reality? what will you see? what will be happening to let you know you are heading in the right direction? what signs will there be to let you know "what's working" and "what's not"