I believe totally in what kitti is saying! I've posted some things over my thread on just this subject, out of the DR book.
So if you all want to be true DRers you need to pick the book up! There is some really awesome stuff in there!
I started by~ saying when H was around "we" and "our". Now my H is saying it all the time! I also start talking about doing things together in the future form~ like going on vacations together, even if it is with friends!
I'm telling all of you, it IS working in my sitch. And if you are in piecing, then it is time to start thinking and imagining you and S are going to have a future together!
Once you start, it will get easier, and will then become a habit! Some steps....
So here is my vision~my H and I vacationing together, walking together with our arms around each other! Another senerio~ H and I sitting side by side with grandkids playing around us. LOL, we have a grandson and that is already happening. we sit on the couch, not close though, will Jr. crawls from one to another!
