I wonder all the time why my H filed right away and then nothing...maybe he thought I'd do the work? Who knows...I do believe that if he had not had a new L take over his case, he wouldn't have even gone gotten the property agrrement going yet...
I think the difference between my brother's sitch and mine is that my brother's M has been stagnant for a long time, they lived like roomates and didn't have any communication at all even over simple things...her texting his friend was the final straw...when they talked, he listed all the things that would have to change and she said she didn't think she could change and didn't believe that he would so he filed...I also think it was a pride thing...he felt she was making a fool out of him by doing that behind his back!
In my sitch, if it had been ME that was having an A, I think H would have D'd me right away...
Thanksgiving...gonna be small. My other brother offered to host this year. It will just be me and the kids for dinner and then SS and his family will drop by for dessert.
I have to admit a "morbid curiosity" as to what H will be doing on that day! Unless things have changed with OW's family, I don't think he will be welcome there!!!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
