I hope the pictures went well! Who knows about H, but I am not going to give advice as right now I am in a funk. Just keep doing what you feel is best for you and S because it seems to be working.
Me29 S3 H left 4/1/09 I file 8/2/10 Divorce final 5/17/11 1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52 2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg 3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89