My c said that the reason my h and have arguments is that we are allowing the possibility of d to remain in our minds thus breeding distrust and suspicion...not good conversation enablers. He says that our interactions will be more positive if we get d out of our vocabulary and focus on hope in our reconciliation!
Philippians 4
8Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable--if anything is excellent or praiseworthy--think about such things. 9Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me--put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.
