Bethann,

Your answer, while wonderful, truthful, and honest, was focused on him. Unfortunately, you cannot control him right now...

The better question might be, what do you want for you?

Something that you can control...

I believe that is where Dbmod was headed with her question...

What can you do to affect some small and measurable change right now?


"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox