I don't want to get in a pi$$ing match with you. You have a tendency to fight with other posters and lose sight of why you are here. Please stop directing posts to other people and stick to the thread owner. You are doing a great diservice to scared and confused people by constantly muddying the waters in your quest to be the only one who can give advice.
^^ These are ruffled feathers. CMNM is telling me outright to leave her comments unchallenged. And the challenge she offers to refute what I've been saying? "Muddying the waters"...
GASLIGHTING
Nothing in there ... Just Gaslighting...
Nothing about the advice I put up, just a hollow accusation that I am muddying waters.
Sorry CMNM if your feathers are in a knot, but challening someon'es advice is called thinking...
It's not a bad thing to do once in a while. And it most certainly is not muddying any waters...
If more people did that on threads you would see less conflicting advice. The bad advice would quickly disappear.
But since some people get upset when their advice is challenged we end up not helping marmie at all.
I for one would like to focus on coming up with some good advice for marmie here... Rather than having to explain how the marketplace of ideas is designed to function.
