last time I checked everything on this open forum is advice. Openly expressed and freely given. You seemed to be the only one saying she has to do things your way. Even the part about the "laughing in her face" part. She clarified that at that time he laughed at her suggestion of seeing the priest which is different from laughing at the abuse.
You may not like the advice or suggestions other people give, but they have a right to give it same as you. It's up to marmie to decide what action she wants to take.
And IMO, I think she does need to see a professional to figure out how to deal with an issue like this. She can't force him to see someone but she can see someone for her own well-being and health. Friends are great, but this seems to be a little more than just "oh he's looking at porn" kind of issue.
Marmie, I know it's unfair to you, but you have to be the one to decide if you want to stay married because of this. If you do, how far you take it is up to you. My prayers do go out to you.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
