This is the last thing I will address to you. So please, just let it go and help Marmie. That is why we came here in the first place.
Then stop gaslighting and do it...
You are doing a great diservice to scared and confused people by constantly muddying the waters in your quest to promote coddling of abuse instead of encouraging people to protect themselves.
If you are here to help marmie then where were you nine pages ago?