CW- Reading about sitches like how your brother wanted the D so badly that he quickly took action adds to the confusion of why our spouses didn't take hasty action. They are with another woman, so clearly they should want out, what the???
Sometimes maybe they can't afford to file but where there is a will, there is a way.

I know I am being rhetorical but I had to say something! Have you thought about it, too? Like how your H didn't push the D through once he filed?

How are your Thanksgiving plans this year and how are you feeling about it?

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004