If a highly emotional friend came to me in a bar with a story about someone else, I am not going after that person until I get some real facts. After she calms down. I am not going to defend someone if I am not completely sure they need to be defended.
Did you not see this two pages ago? Steve summarized it quite nicely for you but I guess this wasn't factual enough for you?
Originally Posted By: Steve McQueen
THE FACT REMAINS! and I will highlights Clark's text as it is direct to the point and correct
His behavior so far is listed by marmie as the following :
a. He has done this in secret, effectively lying by ommision b. He refused to stop c. He knows he's hurting you d. He's laughing at you
LYING, SNEAKING, HURTFUL BEHAVIOR
That is unacceptable and inappropriate marital behavior. PERIOD.
It is important here it is important in 100 other threads on this board right now. We all know where this leads.
My guess is you need to see a knife in someone before you decide that someone needs protecting...
