Well, I beleive being strong without being unkind or being an a$$ is the best way for me to move forward, with or without H coming around.
Good, this is for YOU- YOUR VALUES are to be strong without being cold or a jerk.
I will keep my posts shorter than some of the others just for variety
But my gut reaction to you saying your citizenship is top priority- you do what you need to do! Honestly! Don't mess around- trust your instincts and get that taken care of.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
