James Dobson - "Love Must be Tough". Great on boundaries, great on letting go of the people that abuse you (especially those spouses openly having affairs & still living at home - ie. cakeeating).

Side point - Dobson is a terrible homophobe. Found that part very disappointing.

Me 36; H 40
baby born in May
M:13, T:15
Bomb (OW): Dec 09
began DBing: Feb
WH overseas with OW
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