How do I deal with now he's overseas?

[Piano]

I'll be back to post in a minnie... I think Dobson is great (have read the book) and is brilliant in a situation when a WS is lying, cheating, being cruel etc. I have learnt about tough love through him.

CK, my husband is a Peter Pan
He is a man- child

but he is not lying and cheating right now.

I could cut him off completely but how do I acheive my goals of getting more money this way and securing my citizenship?

This Q is for you, CK.