Update,Ok so to keep all of you in the loop. The OM had the odacity to contact me via txt today, I remained polite it was for a practical issue involving older children (close group). I told him to please speak to so and so.. This went on for a few txt, he txt'd he would contact my W then, At which point I sent the final txt telling him who to contact instead of me or her and politely stated it would also be nice if he stopped contacting my wife so that I have a chance to save my family. I directly asked W if they talked and she admited yes, not about the subject he contacted me on. She very plainly stated they just talk. I was about to walk away when I very calmly soft toned stated i don't know what if anything is going to become of us but if you keep talking to OM nothing will or maybe I said can. Her response ...sigh.. and look away. I still plan to gather evidence, speak to OM spouse. And plan this possible exposure. I hate this, hate what a D will do to my kids I want to confront her now I think a ride instead. Thank you all for your support, as you can see I need it.
H 37 WW 37 M 15 5 Children Bomb 9-27-10 W EA/Pa she filed 12-18-10
