You are getting some very good advice from Grit and CNMN.
IMO, at the end of the day you must decide ONE thing.
How does Piano want to live her life.
Does she want to hold on to anger and resenment and try to control things that are outside of her control OR
Does she want to live a life of peace and love. Not a doormat - no a life with healthy boundaries and healthy R's.
Everything and I mean everything in our life is a CHOICE we make.
You choose to love, you choose to forgive, you choose to stay angry, you choose to listen to others, you choose to be happy, you choose to be sad, you choose to stay depressed, you choose to be a good parent, you choose to let go, you choose to allow people the freedom to be what THEY want to be and you also choose to be what YOU want to be.
Choices....Piano,
Everything is a choice.
I have not doubt that you will choose what is best for you and that precious little girl that you have.
May God Bless you, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
