Well, I beleive being strong without being unkind or being an a$$ is the best way for me to move forward, with or without H coming around.
I know some would call this soft.
But I did 10 months of ranting and raging in WH's face, and apart from turning him off me completely, I could not beleive what I was allowing HIS ACTIONS turn me into!
I cannot let him have that power over me...
Not because I am being soft
Becauase I want to have self-respect and get anger out of my heart because it's hurting me and hurt me for too long being the 'victim' in all this.
