CW - I guess we are all in the same boat on the debt thing.....my H is quite frugal with his personal spending, but the business decisions he makes?...a whole other story....and here we are talking tens of thousands not just thousands.....and at our age?
GAG - H started the affair in April 2009 It was secret for 6 months...I discovered it end of September 2009. Then it was in and out...last time H told me it's over between them and that he wants to R was in April this year...and the affair was back on in May. So technically they were "free" from their spouses for the last 6 months. Still a fantasy IMO....they only visit each other about once a month for a week or two...they don't live together....no bills, no juggling kids, no child support, she has no job. But I think that the loses are mounting and the reality is setting in slowly.....
Thinking what it the strongest emotion that I feel towards my H right now....surprisingly it's empathy...I feel sorry for him
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
