BR is not feeling well today. Both myself and S are down for the count. I think I may have strep but I'm not sure. I'll let the doctor tell me later today.
I went out for my little outing on Friday but didn't stay out very late. I was home by 1:00AM. W was pretending to be asleep when I came in so I breezed past her. The next day, the kids told me mommy was pizzed at me. I was told she was mad because I didn't tell her what/where I was going/doing and with who. They told me she asked them questions and such. To top things off, she was mad because I didn't get it approved with her. She said this is what she has to do. Well, she does have to let me know of her plans. If I'm watching "her kids" as she likes to call them then she does have to tell me at least the when's of the plan. The who and where may not be the truth so I don't really need to know those.
I got the cold shoulder the entire weekend. On Sunday, I left to meet a customer. Of course, I didn't tell her the what and wheres of the mission. She was short and cold as I left. When I got back, I laid in the bed and watched Nascar. I fell asleep. I rolled over about an hour later and there was someone in the bed with me....No, it wasn't the W as I had hoped. The S had crawled in with his sick butt. W came in and looked and kept moving. I'm sure that made her mad but I didn't invite him in.
W later decided she was going to go out for a couple hours. She didn't tell me anything of it and made a broadcast that she was leaving to the kids and made it sound as if she was going to be gone late. I knew she was going to meet a girl friend and then hook up with another for maybe and drink and a trip to Wally World. I think I was supposed to object and ask questions as I would in the past. I just let it slide. I don't think that made her too happy as I woke up to a dry coffee pot.......
This 180 stuff is semi-working but I need a new strategy. Her being angry and curious may be a good sign. It's time to try and pull her in if possible. If not well.... My mom was telling me if she was in W's place, giving her the Vday stuff would have made her feel guilty and bring up memories of the past. That wasn't my intention. We'll see what happens later.
