I think I'm half way understand it Anette. A friend kind of explained it to me. She thinks W is lonely in her sleeping sitch that's why she wants the boy sleeping in the same room as her. She doesn't want him in the same bed or anything by all means. Sometimes, I feel sorry for her but other times, I don't. I helped get her in this situation, I can't do all the work to get her out of it. I'm wondering if guys like the cart boy aren't panning out. She said something the other day that struck me. She said she was tired of people not liking her for who she was, just her rack. I want more from her than a rack but she can't see that.

I'm about to leave for the better part of the night. I thought I would check the thread. I decided I was going out with some of the ladies from work for drinks and bowling and or a movie. I'll leave W home with the S she thinks I'm trying to turn against her. He asked that I not go and leave him there with her. What can I do? I need a life and perhaps they'll really talk. I have the scents on and my new ear ring. I think I look nice. W is looking at me but isn't saying much. I packed my RON (remain overnight)bag just in case. My cousin and her hubby live a few doors down from one of the ladies where I'll park the car. I'm not driving so I may let loose. If I stay out, I'm not sure if I will mention I went out with friends but I'm sleepin' on the couch in cuz's house. Make her wonder....

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