How long has OW been in the picture? I don't remember when that started? Just thinking that things have to be becoming more tedious between them. Nothing like a puppy needing potty training to interrupt the mood.
Originally Posted By: Mila
I was just thinking the other day, I'm trying to separate from him financially, so I'm no longer liable for his debts....but if/when he wakes up he can be on my doorstep with a giant debt....don't even want to think about that scenario....
One baby step at a time, Mila. You have come far over the last 6 months. The important thing is to minimize the impact of H's financial decisions on you and D. If/when H wakes up, he (with or without your help) can explore the options for dealing with that.
I take comfort in what Jody said about how MLCers can return to their pre-MLC personality after the crisis is over and I think this applies many times over in your situation. You did NOT misread H all of those 38 years. Jody has a lot of experience counseling about MLC, so in my mind her opinion carries a lot of weight. I'm glad that you found her perspective comforting.
