Moving Forward

[gutwrenching]

THANK YOU LOST!
Someone else who gets it! Yes we are still talking
We talked for probably 3 hours last night. Got nowhere. Reiterated boundary, if you contact him, you are not welcome in this house
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BOttom line. She is ADDICTED. She knows that rationally she would be nuts to go to him. He doesn't meet her security need, I don't meet her need for that instant connection (can you say addiction) and everything else would be wash she says.

She needs help. I don't know how to get her help

I got to be honest...I don't know if I could do this for another two or three weeks. I have to decide that. But we were so happy for our first 3 months of piecing which she freely admits and agrees too...that I don't know if I can limbo land again which is where she is now.

I cant be positive there are no lies. She did lie and sneak to start up contact, but since then seems to have been fairly open.

I still think she is 70% leaning towards leaving the M