Yesterday I was thinking about your H bringing wood to your home and the thought occurred to me that the decision you made last summer to stay in your house might be paying off. It's possible that your H bringing wood to you might be a thread between the two of you (like TT for me) that has the potential to grow as H attends the mandatory classes and has the opportunity to think about his decision.
Keep being that "firefly" that I described from my session with Jody. The holidays are a perfect time to fill your house with scents and homey visual images. According to research, cinnamon is supposed to be an aphrodisiac for men. I always burned a Yankee Candle called "Home Sweet Home" (a nice cinnamon scent) when H/XH came to visit. He commented on how much he liked the scent and I once caught him looking at the label, trying to figure out which scent it was. I bought several of them at TJ Max's home store once.
I bought several of them at TJ Max's home store once.