The crying like a teenager being dumped is real... The WAW with go thru a withdrawal phase because she still wants the fantasy of the OM...it takes a couple months... I pondered the exposure options in my sitch... I made the decision not to expose, but if my WAW were to fully pursue the Big D...I am sure things would leak out at that point because our friends would ask me questions that I would be truthful about... Each person has to weigh the options to expose the A, or not to expose... Michelle Davis leans toward the do not expose position on the basis that it makes it more difficult to repair and mend the marriage if the exposure is to harsh... Thanks.
