I was diagnosed September 2007. Walking in the 3-Day breast cancer walk for the first time this past October 2010 was one way I tried to reclaim my strength.
yes, I am feeling more confident, trying to run the drop off in my head. I think if I walk in there like it is any other occasion I will be fine, then quickly say my hello's and get the heck out of there.
Thank you for your support, Shelby
Me:43 H:43 T:20 YRS M:15 YRS Bomb: 6/9/08 Bomb#2 7/6/10 Served with papers at work 7/13/10 DD:14, DD:11
You already have all the strength inside that you will ever need to face anything in your path. You have faced and fought one of the greatest fears a woman has.
Yes! Keep running the scenario over in your head till you feel confident and then stick to the game plan with a beautiful smile on your face. Keep thinking of that old saying, "Never let them see you sweat!"
I've no doubt you can pull this off!
You're welcome! We're here to help see each other through.
I found you! I wondered what happened to you...glad to see you are still around!
Do you think his family forced him to ask you? What do you want to do? Sounds like a good opportunity to visit with his family. Do you think you can handle being in the same house with him without getting emotional?
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If it's not something you want to do a polite no thanks, I already have plans and then doing what you were going to do initially will get him wondering.
I am still around,took a little break, but I am back now. I have been doing good, The holidays coming set me back a little, but I will make it through it one way or another and be fine...still deciding what to do about Thanksgiving and then I will worry about Christmas later.
Hope you are doing good, anything New?
Me:43 H:43 T:20 YRS M:15 YRS Bomb: 6/9/08 Bomb#2 7/6/10 Served with papers at work 7/13/10 DD:14, DD:11
Thanks Seeking answers !! Hope you had a Happy Thanksgiving Day too !!
I went to my in laws. With a play it by ear attitude. I wans't sure if I was just going to go in and say hi to everyone then leave, Or stay for dinner too. It seemed to be going good, and mother in law asked me to stay again, So when I had a moment alone with STBXH, I asked if he was okay and if he was feeling awkard. He said it was fine if I stayed.....So I did.
There might have been some awkward moments, at least in my head, Like where do I sit ? but once I figured that out it was fine.
Glad I went. I quess he will let me know if he had a real problem with it.
Me:43 H:43 T:20 YRS M:15 YRS Bomb: 6/9/08 Bomb#2 7/6/10 Served with papers at work 7/13/10 DD:14, DD:11
