thanks I realize that. I will have to be creative. while not pushing.
Steve, she actually does have injuries with the Plantar. I suspect she will be scaling back after her passing her level 2 Black belt decided. She really doesnt have a plan after that. But we'll see. It isnt about the contract or the money.. I would gladly eat that if she stopped.
dbmod, thanks for your comments. I will be communicating and in touch daily. I am open to any and all suggestions to remain connected emotionally. Unfortunantly, she wont move with me due to her career and our home here. She is quite successful in her own right. The deployment is set for january and I will be able to be in communication daily or whenever she wants to call or email or skype. I am not going to push for her communication like I did last time. I am going to let her intitiate as she wants to and if it gets strange feeling, I will use the tecniques we are using at MC to discuss it. Gonna try to do distance MC also...
Sting sang, if you love someone.. set them free... I did. She came back. It is up to her to stay.
I don't know, Pensa. Waiting for her to initiate is fine when you're DBing, not when you are piecing.
