Originally Posted By: Habitacker
I do not want to go to my grave with my wife feeling the way she does about me at this moment.


Good that you have motivation to make some changes.

BUT

You have no control over how your W feels about you.

So I know you are here to save your M.

And you feel that right now that is tied to how your W feels about you.

You will be setting yourself up for disapointment if you hold an expectattion that she will see these changes and come back.

What am I saying?

Make changes in you for you.

IF

Your W can see the new man you have become, then that is icing on the cake.

This tragedey has been the catalyst for change for you and has allowed you the opportunity to look at your M, and yourself.

My advice? Stop watching or wanting your W to see you and get busy making the changes.

She will see them if they are real.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am