A couple of other things that made me sad this weekend. On friday there was a commercial for Black Friday. S asked about what it was and I said it was a day that people go shopping for Christmas presents. S said "but Fridays are when kids see their daddies". It is all he knows. He is not sad about it, but it is all he knows and it makes me sad. I tried to explain that not everyone has to visit their daddies because some kids live with their daddies like my nephews and his friends. S kind of got it.
Then S said that my B and SIL live together because they love each other and want to stay married. He is just over 3 and is way too smart. He said H and I don't like each other, but I fixed that and said we like each other, but daddy doesn't love mommy (I know blaming H a little, but it is true). Then S brought up how H and I fought; yelled at each other last year. It is scary how vividly he remembers that stuff. I feel horrible for it because he shouldn't remember that, but the only time we fought was last end of December and beginning of January (my low time). About 3 weeks. I am sad that he remembers that and not that we get along now for him. Very sad.
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It is all he knows. He is not sad about it, but it is all he knows and it makes me sad. I tried to explain that not everyone has to visit their daddies because some kids live with their daddies like my nephews and his friends. S kind of got it.