How do I deal with now he's overseas?

[Piano]

I emailed H tonight.
Thanking him for the money and asking how regular it would be. Told him we were lucky my parents were supporting me and bub but that it could not go on indefinitely. Asked him to keep working on my citizenship issue with me for the benefit of us all. Gave him brief news about bub, plus 6 or so photos.

The email was more businesslike than anything. No anger. Light. Some humour at the end. Like I was writing to the neighbour.