Hey GAG, thank you so much for sharing Jody's advice....her views are spot on in my opinion.

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Jody said “Men going through MLC act in ways that is very uncharacteristic.” She has seen very good examples of men returning to their pre-MLC selves and becoming even better people after the crisis is over after they have had time to heal


I have no choice but to believe that, otherwise I would have to think that I was blind for 38 years...not seeing my H's true character....because right now he is so unlike the man that I thought he was all these years....

Keep going smile


M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO