Darling, beautiful friend. My prayers are with you and your family right now. It is so hard to watch them slowly slip away but the time you have with him now will be precious to you. It is truly a blessing.
My mom had a day a few days before she died that she was very clear, sat up in the bed and told me that she was happy with her life, happy with her decision to stop the fight, and was more than happy to go on to her reward. It was exactly what I needed to hear because I was starting to have doubts that she was still comfortable with her decision.
Hold him, comfort him, allow him to comfort you and accept the help your H offers. It's the best gift he can give you right now.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!