It's enabling behavior and it frustrates me to see that this type of counseling stuff gets posted here still. Why thank her for a George W. Bush "Mission Accomplished" marriage? The marriage wasn't supposed to end. Sorry to sound so gruff but what message does this send?
I agree with above. A 'softer' "wish you a Merry Xmas" or "enjoy the day" is perhaps a smidge more appropriate.
Think.
Supporting you.
FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
