HP. I read your thoughts on VD. I'm somewhat leaning towards getting W something. Today. My attitude towards her may change in a 10 minutes. What Big Red and Hair Dog said somewhat rings in my ears. I don't know if I'll find a card that will mirror our sitch. I also worry about rejection. My friend at work says to get her some fancy underwear. I don't know about that one. I may get her a spa gift cert and a card with some type of note in it. Again, that's how I feel right now. I'm sure she'll do something else to make me mad and I'll change.
Today, she showed her softer side twice. Once this morning and just a little bit ago. She woke me up at 5:30 this morning. She wanted to tell me a dream she had about our pet we had to have put down for health reasons. As dumb as it sounds for a guy like me, 6'1" roughly 275lbs that has a favorite shirt that features a skull on it to feel sad about that cat. I miss the cat and wake up feeling her sleeping on my chest like she used to. I get up in the night dodging her hoping I don't step on her or she goes for my feet. Anyway, she was tearing up about the dream that showed the cat as a kitten in heaven playing with other cats. I listened and so on. When she left the room, she didn't do that bumpin' and bloopin' act. Tonight, she came home and was doing her pacing thing running up and down the stairs. I went up and she started telling me about her job and her fears that she won't be able to do it. I know she can but..... I listened and she started crying. I told her that I thought she was the best at what she did. At that point, I forgot about the anger I had with her for the past couple days. IMHO, we connected a little bit. We talked just like the old days. It was cool that she opened up to me about things. She hasn't done that for awhile.
Back to the point. Other than the gift cert which a couple ladies on the job said was not personal enough, I don't have an idea. I don't think I want to buy her fancy drawers.
