Updating, today is W's birthday. I took the kids out last weekend to get her presents from them, but got her nothing from me. I called today to see if she was home so I could drop off the gifts and told her "happy birthday" but I'm not doing anything special for her. She's just a woman I know now, who happens to be the mother of my children.
My lawyer is super slow. He keeps promising documents and not delivering when he says he will. He was recommended to me by a friend who is a lawyer in his office and also had his own dissolution done by this guy. The guy is considered one of the best lawyers in my city, and I was told he is super busy, but it is annoying. I want to get this over with. Especially since I want to refi the house at the current low rates and don't want to go through two separate rounds of paperwork, as I will likely be the one keeping the house.
Overall I am doing very well. Haven't started dating but am enjoying working on my flirtation skills. Loving the new job. So life is pretty good, and will likely get much better when all of the logistics around the dissolution are finished.
WAW Using God Me-43 W-40 M-14 S-11 S-9 D-7 EABomb 5/09 Separated 12/09
