Wow, some great perspectives on here from everyone! Thanks...

I'm "done" with my old M and enjoying dating. I will always be glad I waited until I got my "mojo" back before trying to be in a new relationship. I KNOW I have to be careful and not jump right into something and we are taking it slow. The guy I'm dating has been divorced for 7 years and seems to be working on himself as well. We'll see....
I know that I set the boundaries for how I allow him to treat me. So far, so good.
I need some help, though. I don't have kids and he has a 15 and 11 year old who live with him every other week. He sort of "implied" that Sat. nights without his kids would be our "date nights." Well, what if I have other things with friends on those nights? Do I save them all for him? I'm not thinking so....How do we find time to date? Help?!


Me 55
H 49
Married 21 years
No kids
bomb 5/09
filed 7/09
divorced and moving forward 5/10

Life is all about Plan B