Another BR update. The past few days have been pleasant but strange. On Saturday, W went out with her best friend for their annual night on the town. I stayed with the kids and did pizza games by the fire and such. This thing she goes on is a standard thing as long as I've known her. Anyway, me and the boy were out doing our thing. He told me he was hoping mommy would be gone by the time we got home. I did a little bit too because of the way she acted on Friday. When I get home, I'm surprised that she's acting nice and cordial. She got together and I must admit she looked nice. She yelled to me a couple times she was leaving. The second time I told her to have a good time. She stood around a few seconds looking at me as if I was supposed to say something and she split.
Sunday she gets home around 3 in the afternoon. It was a raw cold day so I had the fire going and getting my dinner and stuff together. We played games again. She came in and talked to me but like a mutt, I didn't really speak to her because of her mess on Friday. She went to sleep. After she got up, she made an effort to get a conversation going so I stopped acting silly. She surprised me by talking and actually eating at the table with us. She played games and the night went well.
Yesterday, she comes into the room quietly, not banging like she has been. She went into the walk in closet and closed the door so the light wouldn't hit me. She left the room quietly and actually left the coffee pot on with more than a swallow in it.
She came home and decided she wanted to cook so I sat in the kitchen and talked to her like old times. That was cool. She ate at the table again and did some work she had brought home. She then went upstairs to the room and stayed there for awhile. I figured correctly she was getting her stuff ready for work today. She then came down 1/2 hour later and had a tude towards me. Go figure.
This morning, she comes in and wakes me up early because of the snow and ice. She was still quiet and the coffee pot was right again. She actually called me as I was pulling in the lot to see if I made it in one piece. That was a surprise. She talked about her card being on the blink to. At lunch, I went to the parts house to get stuff to fix the problem.
It's strange how nice she's acting. The kids are glad she's nice like this. We can't figure it out. I'm waiting for the shoe to drop. She got a letter from her lawyer. I know it's what my attorney reported about our meeting. She said I think it's in our best interest to get some help and salvage the marriage. I think she may already know about this.
I wonder if she's acting nice because my lawyer is talking and she thinks I'm ready to split or did her finally hearing from my lawyer hit her?
Who knows???? We'll see what happens when she reads that letter.
