Originally Posted By: Harrier
But what if they never change or care or want to change?


Good question.

For you.

We come here looking to save our M of course.

We have an opportunity to learn some things about ourselves, life and love because of this tragedy.

Think about this.

We learn to love as an exchange. We expect to get something in return.

So it goes in our M.

I am not talking about accepting bad behavior. I am talking about why you love someone and how you love them.

Is it only when they do what you want?

And

Are you making changes only for the expectation you will get what you want?

Comes a day when you understand that what you do is for YOU.

And if your W decides to share that or wants that, then great.

What are you prepared to do if you are not guaranteed your M can be saved?

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am