MLC, H & me...moving foward

[courageous wife]

After having had a couple of positive encounters last week with H, I saw the other day that he had used out joint acct to pay the CC bill that he is supposed to be taking care of. Waited a day and gave him a call. He apologized and said that they asked him if they chould take the payment out of the acct they have on file and he thought it was his new one so said yes. He said he'd bring cash to cover it the next day.

Well, H did follow thru with dropping off the money...he also dropped off another load of wood. He called me at work to tell me where he put the cash so that I would find it and apologized again saying that he didn't mean for it to come out of the joint acct.

The other night I went to the required parenting class. The instructor asked ages of our kids and how new the divorce was to them and boy, there are a lot of hurt people out there. She really wasn't asking for the story behind the divorce but people were sure unloading! Had I gone to this class in the beginning, I think I would have been a mess but since I have had time to let it sink in and accept...I truly felt like I was one of the most pulled together peole there! I took away a lot from the class and believe that every state should have something like that in place.

Been awful busy this week and sure hope to get caught up on everyone else's threads soon!!!