I think letting go is something that happens on your time, not necessarily a "decision" that one makes...
Letting go can happen on different levels, and varies for each person. It can happen with a loving detachment, or it can happen with a bitter attitude toward the situation.
I have seen both, and most people seem to fall somewhere in the middle ground.
Letting go is a state of mind, that comes together where the heart and the mind are in total agreement with each other.
Where the mind knows it is time, and the right thing to do, and the heart is in the same place.
That takes time to do, and is not an easy task to get those two to agree during turbulent times in our lives.
And usually happens after much work in our own mirror...
Letting go means to accept the person as they are, according to the choices that they have made.
Is this a decision you are making for you ?
Or a decision you are making for the situation ?
Because when you are ready......
It won't really be a decision, it will be a way of life, and you won't really have to think about why you are doing it...it will just happen.
It sounds to me like you may have already been living it in your brain.....
