Just realized that H is no longer direct depositing his paycheck into our joint account. I know it is getting deposited somewhere because the pay stub he left for me to file says it is. Not surprised. I was planning on doing the same thing.
Tells me his quitting the store was probably not planned. They frown on employee drama. Why go to the trouble of moving your deposits for a $50 paycheck if you are planning on quitting?
Wondering if I will be able to make it financially right now. Once we are divorced child support is gauranteed by the state. I can't cover my bills without it. I don't think H knows about the mandatory child support. I would guess he plans to 'work it out' informally with me.
Probably will be ok if he doesn't pull money out any more, and he hasn't yet. He was spending moree than he was paying in, so it is really not too bad. It just seems like he is no longer feeling responible for things over here. Not surprised.
On a better note, I am having a nice quiet evening at home with my girl. Went to play with a neighbor kid earlier. I have a lot of paperwork and she is tired, so it's Dora to the rescue now. Still a good night to just chill out.
I'm feeling good Tomorrow we go for a morning run and start the holiday banana cake baking. They freeze great, so it is a low stress gift. Mmmmm...
