I agree with Mr. Bond--I read that second marriages have a higher chance of failing due to the stepchildren/stepparenting issues. I would like to see how my boyfriend will interact and treat my son before I accept a proposal. Just sayin'!

Golfgirl- maybe I read too much into your quote. I was trying to say that attracting people with problems doesn't mean that I am giving out signs of being desperate or having problems. (I have had 2+ men with major issues hit on me based on an online profile and as soon as I found out their "issues," I ran! If I were to stay in it that would be a different story.)

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004