The compliments are absolutely not a trick. I used to do it, it just faded away over the years. It is just a little uncomfortable now because I know how she is taking it. They are very sincere and I wish I could wrap my arms around her and kiss her when I tell her these things.
I am not going to go storming into the MC's office or anything like that, but I would like to know what really happened, or then again, maybe it does not even matter. My wife would have a very hard time not telling the truth. You would have to know her to understand. She does not lie. She might not say anything,but she does not lie. Unless you want to count her telling me she loves me for the last 3 years and not really meaning it. Hmmm.
She wasn't crying in front of me when she said she wanted a divorce. It was steel resolve all the way. She said when she told the MC she was crying.


H-40 W-38
Together-20
Married-12
boy-7 girl-3
bomb-9/17/10
No papers
live together
No affair