if this feels controlling to you (and it would to me)
then take it back
fine...email him at whatever his new address is tell him about the boys but let it be your choice
even if he doesn't know you are chosing to email him instead of snail mailing him
it is still your choice to do it
remember...you can not be controlled if you are making choices
One of my favorite quotes (aside from suzy's surfing one) is Our past does not equal our future... because he controlled you before does not mean he can now because he thinks he took away your choices, doesn't mean he has...you can snail mail him, email him at his old address, not contact him about the kids at all unless he contacts you and asks, there are a myriad of choices you have one is to email him at the new email address and you can laugh everytime you do because how juvenile is that? how important does he think he is? I mean really...like you want that pos back anyway let her have him and all his obvious insecurities and little man syndrome because YIKES!!!
whatever
that kind of shitte makes me roll my eyes... whatever big guy there are so many more important things in your life than his cracked up relationship with skankerella
