IAP,

Validating is something that most of us always thought we were doing, yet in hindsight, we realize that we suck at it....

Validating takes effort, and most of us feel we are, or have become, too busy to show that to anyone....let alone the wayward spouse...

Principles learned here DBing, are things that will last a lifetime, and for any reason...

It is about becoming a better person than what we had been.....and striving for that daily.