She says seperate or divorce after her affair help

[blue2010]

Thanks I am getting input from the other forum too it is very active. I am going to use time as my friend no matter what I want her in the house for the kids sake over the holidays. Maybe I need to remind them to pay extra attention when mommy comes home etc instead of glued to TV she thinks they will not miss her. The 180 list is in my pocket. I think maybe standing guard monitoring the phone thing backing off more for now may be best. Making sure I have plans on her nights off. I am not a foward thinker.

Thanks