Quick question about GAL - My family is having Thanksgiving at their home and H chooses not to go and actually was not invited (he doesn't know this - thinks he was invited - just haven't had the heart to tell him). He encouraged me to take the kids and go. I told him I wasn't comfortable keeping the kids away from him that day. He said he would just be watching football all day anyway. I initially thought perhaps he was going to be with ex wife but see now that is not the case. H and I started dated on Thanskgiving 11 years ago so I've always looked forward to this holiday . Anyway - in terms of being a good DB'r, should I take the kids to see my family or stay here with H??
M9+ T 11+ Me42 H44 2 kids under 5 IlYBNILWY -3/10 A discovered late 8/10 H moved out early 9/10 - back two weeks later "Taking a Break" - H moves out 1/2/10
. Anyway - in terms of being a good DB'r, should I take the kids to see my family or stay here with H??