BR is not feeling too good right now. W and I were talking in the garage about a family member with relationship issues. This guy used to be a play boy but was settling down based on our "perfect" marriage. He SAID he wanted to be a family man and such but has backed out because he believes women can't be trusted based on my W. This is most likely just an excuse.
Well one thing leads to another. She was talking about me getting my stuff blah blah. I then asked about the cash out I wanted to which she went into a tizzy telling me how I messed up the marriage and how I was a bad guy and such. She was mad because she will have to work 2 jobs if she wants to keep the house. Doing that, she will never see the kids. She asked why would I want to stay with someone who doesn't love me. I told her I still love her and I meant what I said in front of the JP. I validated but she kept on.
It got worse. She went on with the I want to be friends stuff. I can't be friends with someone I don't trust. I won't trust her after the ink is dry. How can I? She lied to God in front of her family and friend. If she does that, she will do it to me again.
I wish I could have put the advice above to good use considering today's events. I don't think it will work.
