makingprog,

Nothing I can do about that short of quitting... the nature of my job will require it. Wife can visit me though so the period of separation will be about 6 weeks at a time. We also have Skype and phone so connectivity is not a problem. In the meaintime I will be home on the weekends. This is a good trial to see how the trust is maintained until deployment. Wife and I had a military career full of separations and nothing happended like this before... I am cautious and nervous but I have to start building the trust. I understand what you are saying but the hard fact remains I need to also continue to earn a living.

Jack thanks for the feedback.. I agree and I was not being smug and I was not trying to show her anything other than validation. It was interesting. She is aware of the damage now that the fog is lifted.


M:42
W:39
S:9
M:20
T:25
D-bomb: 30 Sep 10
Wife changed her mind: 31 Oct 10
Working on it: 31 Oct 10