1) I don't attack OM on a regular basis, mabey 6 times in 6 months and only once is the past 3 months. 2) I am not scared of getting divorced at all, I know that I can only control myself and my actions. Through all of this I have found the person that I am and I show that every day through my actions. I am a GREAT husband and if she doesn't want to be with me, I won't have a problem finding someone that does. 3) I am very committed to working on myself, continuing to be the best father and husband I can be and doing whatever possible to save this marriage. I AM prepared to let go completely and move on if that is what it takes